doisconvolution

im surrounded by dorks.

am i a bad friend? listening to other people’s problems get me down…

nor their complaints…

maybe im unfair like that you know, stick only with prosperity and shy away from adversity.

just could not handle it. could not handle it at all.

sometimes i despise people who are intolerant like that. so i despise myself.

i dont know why its easy for me to let go.

does that mean i dont value people, things or relationships?

i get annoyed when people make so much ado about nothing, but then again they probably hate me coz i couldn’t care less.

i say forgiveness, although how hard is it to do, makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise..not to mention stress-free.

it takes too much effort and energy to hate someone’s guts.

that’s why i love everybody.

no i lied…to some extent, though.

people should stop assuming what other people think. it gets them to a lot of trouble..

i say talk it over, listen to each other, even though you are screaming at each other…

people should also listen and make note of body language.

people should just stop giving each other the cold shoulder…its freakin cold in Canada already.

growing up and dealing with certain types of people is a drag.

sometimes i wish we remain like children- get into a screaming match with someone and pulling their hair, and after both realize that they acted so silly, they would just proceed to lick their wounds and continue playing the tea party.

assuming someone is jealous of you is, i think, a bit arrogant and assuming.

people should find the joy of giving, and not feel burdened by it.

maybe i should just stop this nonsense typing…

i’m not done yet…

disclaimer: this post is not meant to stereotype. its just a reflection of what i have observed in my environment lately… reader discretion is advised…

While tommy was driving me to my house the other day, we were talking about high school - his high school in particular… somehow our topic of conversation has reached to "filipino girls". he was asking why Filipino girls easily get pregnant at a young age…

i was perplexed at this question. and i sometimes do think why they easily do get pregnant here in North America - where the Catholic Church is not that big of a stronghold and there’s no issue of using contraception and what not. but then i can’t help but feel bad about this question so i told him…

"it just appears that Filipino teenagers get pregnant easily because when they find out that they are pregnant, they [or i should say most of them] carry it to term because of their God-fearing parents…. Chinese teenagers on the other hand, have the same issue of getting pregnant easily, but its not as obvious in their group because they are easy to decide to have an abortion" (it’s sorta true although not supported by empirical evidence - i see the trend in a couple of hospitals now and not just one…)

and Tommy felt silent about it.